The Big Three Glow-Up: Body Goals, Money Goals, God Goals

Every holiday season I turn into a marshmallow—suddenly craving family time, warmth, matching pajamas, and somebody’s son bringing me a plate. But this year hits different. Last year and this year feel like two completely opposite lives. I have done deep self-reflection and realized, that maybe I am the problem. I mean this in the most respectful way! I crave connection, I love love, and ever since I began to romanticize and live my soft girl era, I have used it as an excuse to be too soft! I think it's time to tap in to my Lady Lady Era! I AM THE MAN! (shout out to Olivia Dean). Honestly, it's time to let go the soft girl era, I am stepping into my classy, witty, rich-auntie era- the woman I've always wanted to be.

Although I choose what is best for me, ALWAYS! I have to admit that this year has been emotionally draining and instead of mourning what changed, I’m choosing to embrace the new beginning. Fully. Big girl buckle-up energy. I cant dwell on the past, and I want to accept all things as they are and not romanticize it to protect my feelings. This year, I have come to the realization that I am okay with heartbreak! It does not define me.

Looking forward to the future, ecstactic for what's to come. I am fully aware that change is needed. I will not get in my own way! I will close out 2025 with happiness, love, and peace! 2026 is the year I choose me—my peace, my goals, my growth, my joy. No more outsourcing stability to someone else’s son. No more losing time chasing comfort instead of purpose. I want to fall in love with my life, not just the idea of a relationship.

Body Goals but Make It Fun

Me + my body = an ongoing situationship. Some days I love her. Other days I’m like… “should I get a BBL? Lol.”

But instead of flying to Miami, I’m flying to my goals.

ZUMBA Trained with THE LORETTA BATES!

I became a licensed Zumba instructor (yes, I’m official).

I’m moving my body more.

I’m eating like I care about future me.

This year, I’m building the body I want with consistency and kindness—not shortcuts. I deserve the version of me that shows up with confidence and doesn’t apologize for taking up space.

Money Talks… And Mine Has Been Screaming

I’ve been saving money every check. Cute. But I’ve also been spending like Amazon is my soulmate. Less cute. And because I want to buy a house, I finally realized something:

I cannot keep delaying my life waiting for a relationship that may or may not exist yet.

Love will come.

Homeownership will not block it.

If anything, a house makes me even more irresistible.

So now?

Feelings down. Finances up.

My Emotions Cannot Be the CEO Anymore

I’ve been impulsive.

Comfort-seeking.

Romance-centered.

And placing my goals in the “when I feel like it” category.

But here’s the shift:

I am done letting my emotions run the business of my life.

My new priorities are simple:

• Movement

• Money

• Mindset

• My Bible

Spiritually, I’m closer to God than I’ve ever been, and it’s changing how I see myself. If I want healthier connections—romantic or otherwise—it starts with my connection to Him. That’s the foundation for everything else.

A Lover Girl… But Now I Love Myself More

I’m a lover girl. Always have been.

But I finally see how much mental real estate relationships were taking up—friends, lovers, family, all of it.

2026 is Happy Me Year.

Not selfish—strategic.

Not closed off—centered.

I’m focusing on the habits, pillars, and spiritual practices that will change my life long-term, not the temporary feelings that distract me.

No more pouring into people, places, and situations that drain me.

No more abandoning my goals for the fantasy of connection.

This time?

My peace gets first pick.

Why I’m Sharing This

Because accountability matters.

Transparency matters.

And you might be feeling the same way.

Here are the 3 simple shifts I’m making for my next level:

Tip 1: Journal First, Respond Later

Instead of reacting from emotion, I’m writing everything down—my feelings, my triggers, my thoughts. Processing on paper keeps me grounded.

Tip 2: Two-A-Day Workouts, Six Days a Week

Sundays: worship, fellowship, rest, meal prep.

This is how I hit my physical goals and stay consistent.

Tip 3: $300 Every Paycheck to My House Fund

Dedicated account.

Automatic deposits.

New home in 2026.

Period.

I’ll be documenting everything on the podcast, so tap in if you want to glow up with me. I’ve talked about the Big Three—Physical, Financial, Spiritual—long enough. Now it’s time to live them.

If you feel this shift too, join me.

It’s time to fly.

With Love,

Li Morales ❤️